While I canâ€™t exactly blame Socrates for my tendency to seek meaning in even the most minute details of life, he provided me with a philosophical excuse to do so whenÂ he said: â€œThe unexamined life is not worth living for a human being.â€ Recently, Iâ€™ve been thinking a lot about stuff and things â€“ literally. I am fascinated by our relationship to the objects that surround us, whether itâ€™s nurturing some kind of a collection, or choosing a reduced, even ascetic, way of living. In the process of this soul searching, Iâ€™m finding that a lot of collectors and minimalists actually have more in common than I realized.
We obviously live in a very product-driven age, what with advertisingâ€™s global reach and shopping made more accessible through the internet. So as populations rise and space and resources grow more scarce, there is an advantage to keeping things as simple possible. On top of that, moving with a lot of belongings is a chore, and we are certainly doing a lot of relocating these days. According toÂ last yearâ€™s census report, 12% of Americans â€“ age 1 and older â€“ had moved at least once between 2011 and 2012. (This doesnâ€™t deter everyone, of course. One of my relatives just moved to Bahrain for work. She brought with her just a couple of suitcasesâ€¦and about 300 lbs of books.)
In response to the threats of growing consumerism, advocacy for minimized living is a popular topic among bloggers, life coaches and journalists. A few months ago, entrepreneur Graham HillÂ wrote an opinion pieceÂ forÂ The New York TimesÂ about his journey from excess to simplicity.Â A hotly debated article, it resonated with some and was panned by others, with Richard Kim ofÂ The NationÂ going so far as to call itÂ â€œa majestic display of guileless narcissism.â€Â The trouble with some of the advice urging us to simplify and reduce is that the process of havingÂ lessÂ can become just as needlessly competitive and aspirational as the pursuit and accumulation ofÂ more. Whether filling life with stuff or striving for minimalism, itâ€™s important to first acknowledge our intellectual and emotional connection to objects. Getting rid of some belongings without a little bit of soul searching wonâ€™t always lead to somehow feeling lighter. Just think about the invisible accumulation that is a very new symptom of the times we live in: digital clutter rules our lives a lot more, but because it isnâ€™t as prominent or tangible, itâ€™s a way of expression that doesnâ€™t get examined as frequently. Read the rest of this entry »